Do you remember being a child and playing on the climbing frames and swings? I don’t mean last week when you were rescuing your child from the massive spider web thing in the middle of the park or chasing your two year old round the pretend castle.
I mean actually being a child and playing.
Were you careful or carefree?
My son and I are careful.
We were at Centre Parcs recently and my children were playing on the adventure playground. My 4 year old started to moan that he couldn’t walk across the wobbly bridge. As much as I love my boy and he can be such a delight he can also be the biggest moaner ever! He struggles to try and his first port of call is to get help before he’s even tried.
I decided to try the whole “Positive Mind set” on him and taught him to say, “I can do it! Before every step he said, “I can do it” and did it. He amazed himself. I think he thought it was magic.
For a few days we reminded him of his new motto. Now we don’t need to remind him, he tells us and he even created a poster with his motto on.
To my delight (sorry, gushing mummy moment alert) I heard his sister say, “I can’t do it”. I heard him pipe up. “No you say “I can do it” then you will be able to do it!”
Those 4 words have dramatically changed his life.
And they can change yours too.
It’s simple. They are just words that you need to say…and actually you don’t need to believe it, you just need to say it.
JUST SAY IT
What is it you are struggling with? A potential new job, looking after your children every day, making your marriage work?
These are words that empower you and give you the belief in yourself to do what you can do.
It doesn’t matter if you are carefree or careful we all get wobbly.
So, You can do it
You can do it
You can do it
PS. Living a fulfilling life is much easier when you have a Coach. I love working with women who want their life to be more from life so please contact me if that’s you because I know I can help you DO IT!!